A Healthy Dose of Perspective

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“A man travels the world over in search of what 
he needs, and returns home to find it.” 
- George Moore
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Whenever I get bogged down by the everyday consumptions of life, I think of this ultrasound photo of Malea.  You know, the one where she flashes the peace sign and the tech actually gets it in a photo.  She was reminding us that life is short and should be enjoyed with a healthy dose of laughter.  

The day started today with an argument between Aaron and I.  Looking back on it, it was stupid, but at the time seemed to matter.  I know I often don't take the time to appreciate things the way I should and I know Aaron would agree he doesn't either.  However, life handed us a healthy dose of perspective today.  We've all had those days.  You know, the ones that remind you what is really important.  It's certainly not making budget, hitting sales goals, qualifying in firearms training, or completing reports.  While yes, those things are important in keeping our jobs, they are not what is really important.  It may be a bit about things like this...

1.  Be Appreciative.  This may seem silly, but tell your spouse thanks for making the coffee or for putting the clothes away.  Mainly, say thanks for random things that are just part of our everyday responsibilities.  It makes the everyday part of life less mundane.  Plus, putting away underwear is not a noteworthy task, but I sure want to do it more often when I know someone appreciates it.

2. Hugs.  When kids are young they give random, unbridled, enthusiastic hugs.  Don't turn away from them or be in too much of a hurry.  Especially don't pull away too soon.  Take every single minute your kids want to give them to you.  After all, someday they won't want to give them at all.

3.  Dishes & Dust.  You know they'll be there tomorrow, so let them sit.  I'm not telling you to live in filth so when things get to the point you can't stand them, get your family involved.  I know my Maddie is wicked with a Swiffer duster!  

4.  Say Thank You.  I told a co-worker the other day that I end all of my emails with "Thank You."  It's a courtesy, so that's why I do it.  Yet, why do we forget to say it to those we love the most?  I'd rather say it lots now before all my kids want to do is text it to me.  Oh, and while we're in the same house, of course.  

5.   Do floors.  I'm not talking about cleaning them.  I'm talking about sitting on them.  You get a new perspective on things.  Plus, you get to see exactly what is under your couch.   
   
Thanks Malea, for this reminder you gave us even before you were born that no matter what, everything is going to be OK. 

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